I don't know what I was waiting for. Perhaps I believed a huge flood of inspiration, a fully formed, perfectly grammatical book was going to spring out of my computer. I waited. I waited some more. I've had some cryptic notes, some unconnected snippets (100 pages of it!) that have been languishing in MS Word for a long time. So a couple of weeks ago, I decided to start chipping away. I'm still not sure how the organization is going to work out or, truthfully, or where it's going in general. Just some flimsy ideas, 100 pages of gunk, and a first chapter. It's fiction in the voice of my alter ego. Here's the first chapter:
Breezy
by
Donna Xander
Chapter 1: The Girl and her
mama
“Prepare ye the way
of the Lord, Ralphie. Prepare ye the way of the Lord.”
That was the voice
of my mother. It was in the spring, 1959, I was 12 years old, and I had just
been hit by a bread truck. I was innocently riding my bike home from my hula
lesson, singing “I’m a little brown girl in a little grass skirt in a little
grass hut,” when a Strosneider’s bread truck came barreling around the corner,
hit my bike, and sent me flying about 10 feet through the air, clear over the
prickle bush hedge, and onto the lawn. The guy driving the bread truck didn’t
even stop. My bike was a mangled pretzel by the side of the road. Stunned,
scraped, and bruised, I managed to get up, counted my body parts, and checked
for missing teeth. Mama just stood there by the front door, holding two bags of
groceries from the A&P, shaking her head, saying, “Prepare ye the way of
the Lord, Ralphie. Prepare ye the way of the Lord.”
I
suppose that little story could give you the wrong impression about a couple of
things. First of all, my mama was never a mean person—she just believed in
self-reliance. I never would have expected her to drop those groceries and come
running to see if the bread truck had killed me. She had faith in my powers of
resilience; she just knew that I’d bounce back, that I was stronger than any
bread truck.
The
second wrong impression you might get from the story of my collision with the
bread truck is that my name is Ralph. Not so. My name is Marie Antoinette
Zimmerman, but my mama rarely called me by my given name. I often wondered
whether it was a bad omen to have been named after a woman who was beheaded.
Perhaps, because when my mama called me Marie Antoinette I knew it meant
trouble. Actually she never called me by any girl’s name and she rarely called
me the same name twice. But somehow I always knew she was talking to me when
she called me Wilbur, or Thurgood, or Gus, or any of the thousands of boy names
she used. There was just something in the tone of her voice that I knew she
meant me. Everyone in Breezy knew she meant me too, though usually when she
referred to me outside of our little family, she just called me “the girl.”
Breezy
is the town where I grew up. Actually, you won’t find it on any map listed as
Breezy. Its official name is Breezy Point. It’s in Calvert
County, Maryland, on the western
shore of the Chesapeake Bay. The houses in
Breezy don’t have much in common except they are all rather squished into the
town, some on the shore, others high up on the hill, or back in the pine trees.
Most of them were built by the people who live in them. And some of the
builders were more skilled than others. Every house had some version of a
screened porch as a defense against flocks of mosquitos in summer. Every house
had a propane tank or two. The pretty houses were freshly painted and had
hydrangea bushes in the yard and black-eyed Susans—the official Maryland flower.
The not-so-pretty houses had rusty, inoperable cars, trucks, lawn mowers, and
swing sets in the yards and their paint was peeling.
My mother was
named Mary Magdalena Zimmerman, but everyone called her Maggie. She was more
than a little eccentric—in some ways like a rabid butterfly, flitting around,
changing to suit her whims, but in other ways she was as immutable as the Rock
of Gibraltar.
One of her most
obvious whims was her hair obsession. On alternate weeks, she changed her hair
color. It could be magenta, burnt umber, platinum, or a combination or any of
the above. These were never hair colors never seen in nature. She had an entire
collection of falls and wiglets and little chignons that she attached to her
hair with no regard for trying to match the color of the fake hair to her hair
color du jour. Once she cut tresses out of one of her hairpieces and glued them
to her scalp with industrial strength glue. She thought it looked great for the
first day and she believed she was on to something, that she had discovered a
great new beauty tip and she began brewing a plan to market her discovery. Then
the glued-in pieces started falling out along with large chunks of her natural
hair. She didn’t miss a beat though and she didn’t fret about the big bald spots
on her skull. It gave her an opportunity to get some new hair pieces until her
hair grew back. And it gave her a chance to be philosophical, to impart a
little of her wisdom to me, saying, “What the Lord giveth, the Lord taketh
away, Grover. What the Lord giveth, the Lord taketh away.”
Mama liked to
quote Scripture. She always repeated it for emphasis.
Glamour was Mama’s
passion and she figured out how to support us by making glamour her business.
She sold Avon for 35 years and eventually worked her way up to regional
manager. People in Breezy used to say, “Ding dong” almost any time they saw
her. She loved Avon and her customers loved
her.
Then there was
Mama’s redecorating obsession, limited only to the living room. The dining room
never changed; it was wallpapered with lords and ladies dancing the minuet and
cluttered with stacks of boxes of Avon
products, a gallery of paint-by-number oil paintings, portraits of saints, and
Mama’s extensive collection of Queen Elizabeth coronation china. Other than the
coming and going of Avon products, nothing in the dining room ever got moved.
We ate our meals
on TV trays in Mama’s bedroom, sitting on the pink chenille bedspread while
watching whatever grainy show was on the television, one show nearly
indistinguishable from the next. In the corner of her bedroom was a statue that
Aunt Eloise had shipped from Mexico. I think it was supposed to be the Blessed
Mother but the Blessed Mother was dressed in a tacky satin wedding dress and
bridal veil and she was wearing a wild black wig. The weirdest thing about the
Blessed Mother Bride was her size—she was not the standard-size statue that
could be put on a mantle or dresser. She wasn’t life-size either. She was the
size of a young child, dressed in a satin wedding dress. Why couldn’t we have
had a nice smiling blue-eyed blonde Blessed Mother statue like Mary Margaret
McCarthy had? No, we had to have the pygmy bride of Frankenstein version of the
BVM. She creeped me out. Whenever I was sick, burning with fever, Mama would
say, “Come and sleep in my bed, Richard, so I can keep an eye on you.” No way!
I’d always lie and tell her I was fine, but to tell the truth, I feared having
delirious nightmares featuring the fiend in the corner more than I feared any
illness.
While the décor in
most of the house never changed, the living room got painted once a month,
whether it needed it or not. Mama bought the paint at yard sales, liberated it
from the neighbors’ trash, or borrowed it from her sister Eloise. I don’t know
how she intended to return the borrowed paint once it had been applied to the
walls. She often mixed paint to create her own “special blend” of colors. On
more than one occasion she mixed in hair color in an attempt to make the living
room match her. Mercifully, these colors could not be replicated. Mama’s plan
was to make the living room her little oasis of elegance. Accessories included
cherub lamps and American eagles and ashtrays with swan wings. There were
framed photographs in the living room but she bought the picture frames with
photos already in them, never photos of anyone we knew. Mama called me Marie
Antoinette once when she overheard me telling Barbie Grant that the handsome
young man in one of the framed photos was my cousin Pierre from France
and that he was going to send me a French poodle and a box of chocolate-covered
cherries for my birthday. Although Mama’s own interpretation of truth could be
a little wobbly at times, she held me to a higher standard.
Although the
dining room furniture was threadbare and held together with duct tape and
twine, Mama regularly redid the living room furniture in an endless variety of
themes. We went through several versions of Polynesia, although she once
corrected me to clarify that it was Bora Bora and not Polynesia. We had 1880s
New Orleans for a while. One summer she did a “North to Alaska” theme because
she thought it would be cooling in the absence of air conditioning. But she
reliably returned to some version of Gay Paree. She sewed window swags and
pillows and reupholstered chairs with fabric she got dirt-cheap from her best
friend Darla who was the manager of Jo-Ann’s Fabrics. (Darla also was into
competitive ballroom dancing so she always wore high heels because she said she
had to keep her feet in training. Darla was married to Vince, a telephone
repairman. Vince was a competitive body builder, he shaved his chest, and used
Mantan because he wanted to look like a bronze god. Once Vince was doing some
telephone repair work in a house when no one was home. Seems it was a hot day
and Vince decided to take a shower. Imagine the surprise when the lady of the
house came home and found the telephone man in her shower. Vince got fired and
began selling World Book encyclopedias. He couldn’t read that well himself but
the ladies liked him.) But I digress.
And there was like
a revolving door of pets coming into and out of our house. Mama’s friend
Blanche was the pusher, keeping Mama supplied like some sort of dope fiend who
was a sucker for a furry or feathered face. Blanche worked at the county animal
shelter and Mama was always willing to take in another cat, dog, bird, or a pet
in the “other” category. But the animals usually didn’t stay for more than a
week or two. When the new pet seemed to be AWOL and I asked her where it was
she always said, “Guess it must have run away. You know that God created all
the wild animals according to their kinds, Louie, and He saw that it was good.
Yes, He saw that it was good.”
Seems most of them
ran away because they objected to being house-broken. One time Blanche sent
from the shelter a lovely yellow and green parakeet. I named it Chiffon, but
pronounced it “Chee-fawhn”
with a heavy French accent that seemed appropriate for our décor. I didn’t know
any French but I thought it might be the French translation of the word chiffon. I might be right—I never looked
it up. The bird stayed for about a month but it got mites and gave them to me.
Soon after the mites appeared, Chiffon just up and disappeared too. When I
asked Mama where the bird was, she said, “Guess it must have run away.”
“If it left, it
probably flew away,” I muttered. “And when it flew away it took its cage
with it.” The sarcasm was lost on her.
Just before Easter
one year, Mama came home from the feed store with a baby duck. I named it
Elmer. Elmer had the run of the house, waddling free, quacking and pooping.
Apparently it’s difficult to house train a duck. I tried but I could find
little guidance on duck training, even at the country library. I tried to
shampoo him too, but he would have none of it. As if the duck poop wasn’t
enough of an issue, Elmer developed a serious limp. Mama decided that the limp
was a sign that the duck was terminally ill and the humane thing to do would be
to put him out of his misery. So she turned the gas on in the oven without
lighting it and put Elmer in the oven. As we were getting asphyxiated on the
gas fumes, Mama kept checking the oven, expecting to see the poor little
duckling’s limp body. Every time she opened the oven door, he just quacked and
looked at her. Fearing we all would die in a house-leveling explosion, she
finally turned off the gas and took him out of the oven. Elmer was fine.
Actually, he was cured—he stopped limping and eventually he went to live with
the other ducks in the pond at Gate of Heaven cemetery. For all I know, he’s
still there, quacking and pooping.
So there were the
things in our household that were always changing, like Mama’s hair, and our
home décor, and passing parade of animal shelter refugees. Then there were the
things about Mama that were immutable.
For example, she
had these little food obsessions. Every day, without variation she ate exactly
the same thing for breakfast and lunch. Breakfast was two of the big shredded
wheat biscuits, warm milk, one teaspoon of sugar with a cup of black Sanka.
Lunch was a sliced hard-boiled egg with mustard on Wonder Bread. There were
slight variations for dinner because I made dinner—pancakes on Sunday,
spaghetti on Monday, tuna noodle casserole on Tuesday, hamburger surprise on
Wednesday, scrambled eggs on Thursday, and fish sticks on Friday. On Saturday
we went out to Lula’s for hamburgers. On the first Sunday of every month we had
cream chipped beef on toast and peas—it was our way to celebrate.
Mama was obsessed
with bugs, especially flying bugs. She was convinced that mosquitoes were
responsible for all manner of illness including chicken pox, tuberculosis,
polio, leprosy, acne, and diarrhea. She sprayed me with insect repellant every
time I left the house. She’d check the outside thermometer—if the temperature
was above 20 degrees F, I’d get sprayed. To this day, the smell of insect
repellant and wet paint reminds me of home. I wonder how many of my brain cells
were destroyed by the insect repellant.
Mama never wavered
from Catholicism either. She had memorized both the Baltimore Catechism #1 and
the Baltimore Catechism #2 and could point out the fine points of all the
differences between the two. She did novenas and First Fridays and knew the
patron saints of everything, even obscure things—like St. Lucy the patron saint
of electrical contractors. (She said special prayers to St. Lucy every time
Bert Wojcik came to fix the fuse box—she didn’t quite trust Bert on his own
merits.) And she went to confession every Saturday afternoon at Immaculate Conception Church,
whether she needed it or not. She didn’t have many sinful habits. She didn’t
exceed the speed limit, or curse, or drink alcohol. (Once Doc Betz, the
druggist, told her to try a little glass of wine to help her sleep. So she
poured herself a shot glass of wine, climbed into bed, drank the wine, and
immediately lay down.) I think she went to confession in lieu of going to
therapy. Father Mahoney could have set his watch every Saturday when Maggie
Zimmerman appeared on the other side of the confessional screen. The only thing
she probably had to confess was that she lied so frequently about the
disappearance of the pets.
But here’s the
ultimate proof that Mama’s tenacity never stopped at the border. When I was 12,
Mama had been married to Daddy for 20 years. But it had been 10 years since
Daddy walked out of the house to get a pack of cigarettes and never returned.
No word from him, no explanation, simply gone. Mama still considered herself
married. Occasionally I’d get up the nerve to ask her about him. She’d say
something like, “Well, I’m not sure where he is, but I do believe he’ll be home
by Thanksgiving. He just loves a good turkey.”
She baked him a
birthday cake every year on his birthday. (On one of Daddy’s no-show birthdays
we had a new dog. It was a big, black dog who drooled and smelled bad. The dog
ate most of Daddy’s birthday cake. The following day the dog “ran away.” Mama
said the dog favored Daddy and just wanted to be with him.) And every year she
bought my missing father an anniversary card, signed it “with all my love,
Maggie” and put it on the living room mantle. The cards were always those
really mushy cards with poems about how their love had grown over the years.
And my father the
disciplinarian, though absent in fact, was ever-present in her mind. When I
misbehaved, she would say, “When your father gets home, you’ll have your day of
reckoning, Homer, you’ll have your day of reckoning.” Wherever he was, perhaps
he was more powerful in his absence than if he had been there.